A Sudden Ultimatum
I've been married for 11 years and thought everything was fine, but my wife recently dropped a bombshell: she's been sexually dissatisfied for the past seven years and wants to either open our marriage or end it.
My pleas for couples' therapy have been ignored, leaving me with an ultimatum. What's disturbing is the surprise - there was little indication of her dissatisfaction or interest in an open relationship.
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column.
- Married for 11 years, together for 14
- Two kids
- Wife's sudden announcement of sexual dissatisfaction
- Ultimatum: open marriage or end it
Author's summary: Marriage faces unexpected ultimatum.